#SinfullySassySunday: How to Boost Your Health with a Party for One #TheVixen #masturbation

How to Boost Your Health with 

a Party for One

Yes, you read that right. Today the Vixen is going to talk about the fine art of masturbation. Not only can self-love give you great pleasure, but it can actually boost your health. Having at least an orgasm a day has been shown to relieve stress, help you get a better night's sleep, and even relieve some of that dreaded PMS pain. Those are just the small benefits. Hang onto your knickers...the more orgasms you have, the longer your lifespan.

I kid you not. 

The hormone surges involved in the body during and after orgasms help to lower your risk of breast cancer, protect against heart attacks, and keeps the most potent sex organ you have...your brain...healthy.  Click HERE to read more about that.

Not only is it great for your mental and physical health and well-being, masturbation is the best way for you to discover your inner vixen. Who better to discover what shakes you to your very core than you? If you're comfortable exploring your own body, you will be even more comfortable sharing those experiences with a partner...or two later. Of course that could lead to finding even more hot spots on your body, but that's for another post! ;)

Don't go thinking that just a little bit of touchy feely will get you off in a flash. Masturbation is an ART. You have to set the scene, clear your mind and let the fantasies start flowing through instead. If you are a visual person, put in your favorite porn DVD, with sound if you are also an audio person...like me! ;)  

Dim the lights, surround yourself with candles, or set yourself up in a bubble bath with your brand new waterproof sex toy. Whatever it is, whatever the scene, set it up and start touching yourself. 

Still hung up on those Old Wives's Tales about going blind or body parts falling off?  Afraid the nuns are going to smack you with the ruler? Think you are going to become addicted to it once you start? Well, get over it!  Pleasuring yourself alone or in front of your partner can be the most sexually empowering act you can do. 

At the end of the post I've listed a few articles I found that can give you a bit more "research" and of course, make sure you check out your local or Internet adult toy stores for additions to your toy box for your solo fun. Before I go, I'd like to share with you one of my favorite songs and one I featured in a scene in my first book For the Love of Quinn. It's a fun song and sums up masturbation perfectly. 

Enjoy!

~The Vixen

The Best Masturbation Tips

Your Hands-On Guide to Solo Sex

The Art of Masturbation

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Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. 

Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels, Tawny Savage and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out later this year.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

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#SinfullySassySunday: #TheVixen Explores Sensual and Erotic Wax Play

Welcome to Sinfully Sassy Sundays at Taboo II: Kisses After Dark.  I'm "The Vixen" aka Tammy Dennings Maggy and your guide to all things sinfully sassy, wickedly wanton, freakishly forbidden and temptingly taboo. My goal as always is to help you discover your inner freaky vixen every single day of the week. Sometimes I'll have guests, and other times it will just be me and Luscious Lia chatting over our favorite spicy margaritas.

Speaking of Lia, what do you think of what she's done to the new place? The name change came about because of her friends The Candy Kisses Gang. Kisses After Dark is the name of their new adult themed restaurant and club. She's joined forces with them to create this joint venture on Temptation Island. More on that to come in future posts so keep checking back here and at House of Taboo for updates.

This week I'd like to talk a bit about a new interest for me. I've had a little fantasy I've been saving up for a rainy day so to speak. I've seen movies and videos that depict this fetish, but have been a little shy about trying it out myself. It's wax play.  

Now I'm not talking about the hot wax treatments used to remove "unwanted hair" from specific body parts. No way in hell do I want to end up like this... 

Yeah, no. I'll stick to the good old fashioned way to keep the beaver nice and smooth thank you very much!

I want to talk about using hot wax during sex play. Now there are a few things you should know before you get started with it. Those fancy schmancy colored and scented candles aren't what you'll want to be using here. NOOOOOO!    Those kind burn at a hotter temperature and the additives in them are more apt to cause irritation (besides burns).  

The best wax is the kind that melts at a lower temperature: paraffin or soy wax. The plain white cheap candles tend to be the best when you're first starting out. Sure you can work up to the higher heat candles if that's your thing, but for now let's stick to the newbie set up shall we? The ideal temperature of the wax shouldn't be over 125 degrees Fahrenheit. If you use a melting pot with a temperature gauge, you'll be able to keep the wax at the desired temperature. Soy and paraffin wax melt at around 133 degrees but beeswax melts near 150 degrees. Please keep that in mind when participating in this kind of play. Blisters and burns are no fun and can put a damper on play time for a while until they are healed.

As with all sex play you must consider SAFETY FIRST. Use an old sheet or drop cloth to cover your play area. Solidified wax isn't always easy to get out of carpeting or bedding so make sure you use something you won't mind gets a permanent coating of wax drips and droplets. 

Put your candles or melting pots on a secure, flat surface to avoid accidents and it's probably a good idea to have a small fire extinguisher at the ready.  Use towels, cold wash clothes and ice for the recipients of the wax. The ice in particular adds another dimension to the hot/cold experience. The same can be said for cold liquids...like champagne. ;) (The first part of this video is all you need to watch. The rest of it is a documentary that has nothing to do with our discussion today.)

Notice how Madonna held up the candle high above Willem Defoe's body? It's not just a way to raise his anticipation level. Pouring the melted wax from that height allows it to partially cool as it falls. It's still quite warm when it hits the skin, but not as hot as it was pooling in the top of the candle itself.

I mentioned earlier the use of melting pots for your wax. This is great for keeping the appropriate temperature of the wax and for using different instruments such as paint brushes, ladles, and your partners hands.  That's right. There's nothing more sensual for both of you then having your partner smear hot wax over your body with their own fingertips. The sensation is hard to describe. You'll have to experience it yourself to fully understand.  

Kinkopedia

With the paint brushes, some kinksters have actually used colored wax to write or create other cool designs over their partner's body. By melting crayons (nontoxic) in with the paraffin, they can create the colors desired. It's probably best to try out small areas with each color on the skin and wait 24 hours to see if there is any reaction. If not, then those colors are good to use in your next wax play session.


Now once you've experienced this kind of play, tested out what you do and don't enjoy about it, you can take it up a notch by bringing the candles closer to your body as you dribble the wax. This will raise the temperature of the liquid that touches your body. As you get used to that, and if you wish for more, you can try the beeswax type of candles.  There's no set rule that says you have to go to the hotter wax. 

YOU do what YOU enjoy. Plain and simple.  

For more information, here are a few articles for you to check out offering general information about wax play. 

Technique: Wax Play

Kink of the Week: Wax Play

The Toybag Guide to Hot Wax and Temperature Play

Waxplay

Here's something to work up to if you desire...Enjoy!
~The Vixen

Learn More About The Vixen

Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. 

Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels, Tawny Savage and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out later this year.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

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Tammy's Blog
Tammy's Books on Bookstrand, Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Smashwords,  and iTunes
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#SinfullySassySundays: The Vixen Says You Are What You Eat...At Least You Taste Like It! #foodplay #oralsex

Welcome to Sinfully Sassy Sundays here at Taboo II. I'm Luscious Lia Michaels and only stopped in to welcome my alter ego The Vixen to her new weekly slot. Besides the usual welcome fan fare, my partner Tony has whipped up a few pitchers of margaritas for everyone to pass around while The Vixen continues her discussion on food play. This time she's reminding all of us the foods we eat can and do alter how we taste to our partners. So refill your glasses and take your seats so she can get the show rollin'!

For those of you who haven't already met me, I'm The Vixen, your guide to all things sinful, sassy, naughty and oh so taboo. This week I'm tackling another topic that many are curious about and claim not to know the answer. 

"Does what you eat and drink affect the way your cum tastes?"

You better believe it, honey!  

There are some foods that seem to make cum taste easier on the palate and those that make it cringe worthy. However, taste is subjective. So what I think tastes spicy or sweet, another may perceive as bitter or bland.  For the purpose of this discussion, I'm going to refer to the semen, but the same applies to us, ladies so read carefully!

You may have read articles and blog posts that have talked about oral sex and giving head specifically. It is and can be enjoyable for both parties and the biggest complaint about it happens to be the taste.  Precum IS NOT always sweet and neither is the rest of the spunk.  

So what can you do to change the taste? Read on my sassy ones!

Ingesting foods that break down to more pungent components will make the fluid smell odd and taste bitter. Here are a few tips to avoid that. 

1.     Smell is connected to taste guys, so first things first. KEEP IT CLEAN DOWN THERE! Don't expect your partner to want to go down on you when you smell like an old sweaty gym sock. Granted, there are those who are into that sort of thing, but don't assume your partner will be.

2.     Avoid or at least limit your consumption of asparagus, onions, garlic, brussel sprouts, cabbage, and broccoli. I'm not saying to stay away from these outright, but if you know you have a hot date night coming up, best to keep them off the menu.

3.     Limit your consumption of alcohol, cigarettes, drugs and junk foods. These also have a way of turning your body fluids a bit more bitter tasting.

4.     Limit your coffee intake as well. I know, all you Starbucks addicts are cringing at the idea of having to give up your triple mocha latte, but if you want your partner to suck you off and enjoy it, you need to make the sacrifice.

What if you just can't give up or limit the foods and beverages listed above? Start drinking a lot of water, baby! Water is the best detox agent around. It dilutes all the "toxins" you take into your body and those your body creates during normal metabolism. Other things to try include:

1.     Eat more fruits such as melons, pineapple, papaya and some berries. These tend to raise the acidity of your body fluids and combats the bitter alkaline taste of cum.

2.     Cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg and honey all enhance the flavor of semen.

3.     Wheat grass, parsley and celery are also recommended

4.     Basically eat less proteins and more fruits and veggies and the pungent odor and taste of jism will diminish.

If you want to try something that's healthy for you and can sweeten up your cum for your partner, give the following a try. There's no scientific evidence this will make your partner enjoy the taste of your ejaculate, but why not give it a try for yourself.  What have you got to lose?  You just may end up with a partner who wants to give you the hummer of your dreams...and swallow! ;)

Super Spunk Smoothie

1 cup pineapple, fresh or canned

1 banana, frozen

1 cup apple juice

1/2 tsp ginger

1/2 tsp cinnamon

1/4 tsp nutmeg

1/2 tsp vanilla extract

2 TBS honey

Optional ingredients: 1 raw egg white, 2 TBS wheat germ, 2 TBS flax seed, 1 shot wheatgrass juice

Blend all ingredients in a blender until smooth. Drink immediately. Repeat daily for best results

Until next time,

~The Vixen

Learn More About The Vixen

Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her best selling poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. 

Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out early 2014.  Lia's first LGBT erotic paranormal short story is now available through Amazon, ARe, Smashwords, and most major ebook outlets.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

Check out:

Tammy's Website

Tammy's Blog

Tammy's Books on Bookstrand, Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Smashwords,  and iTunes

Sassy VixenPublishing

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Food for Thought and Sex Play with #TheVixen #foodplay #fetish

Welcome to the room behind the ropes at House of Taboo. This used to be the "Members Only" section of the club, but now it has a home of its own here on the island paradise we call Temptations Resort. While we continue to get ready for our full grand opening party, The Vixen has taken over the reigns and promised to bring us all the sinful, sassy, naughty, wicked, wanton and oh soooo taboo topics she once covered on another page. 

Now she's here, where she belongs with those of us just as sinful, sassy and taboo as she is. This is a place where all are welcome. Fetishes are our specialty. This time The Vixen chats about incorporating food into your sex play. I'll let her get to it while I help Tony out with the next round of margaritas. ~Luscious Lia

Thanks, babe! Make sure one of those pitchers has my name on it please. I've been eyeballing those pomegranate bad boys and I"m willing to give up my usual jalapeno lime for a few of those. Just sayin'!

I hope you all enjoy your weekends as much as I do. Not only do I get to visit with family and friends, I usually to get in a bit of "research" for this article. Let's just say Mr. Vixen was more than a willing participant in our experiments.  ;)

Well, I had to be sure I was reporting the most up to date information to you and not just old wives' tales. Right? My reputation as The Vixen is on the line here. Rest assured, the information presented today is definitely not in the Old Wive's Tale category nor is anything a myth as some would have you believe. Take a look at this famous clip from the movie "9 1/2 Weeks" starring Kim Bassinger and Mickey Rourke.

Yes, my lovelies. Food can and should be brought into the bedroom during play time. Certain fruits and vegetables can make you and your partner taste fantastic. Other foods are just plain fun, bringing out that inner child and playfulness that can be oh so sexy and a huge turn on for not only you, but your partner(s) as well.  Look at how much fun both lovers had in the previous video. They turned their game of guess this flavor into a night of fabulously sticky sex. Is that for everyone? Nope, but if it's something you'd like to give a go, talk to your partner and set up a bit of the naughty play that does appeal to you.  Here are a few ideas to consider.

Are you HOT or COLD?

Have a variety of items near the bed to put in your mouth before kissing or licking your partner's body. Hot tea, cocoa, or coffee vs. iced water can be a great way to alter the sensation your mouth can give when performing oral sex on your partner.  Another item is Creme de menthe. Swirl it in your mouth for a few moments before performing fellatio. Then pop him out of your mouth and blow on his penis. This will create a cool to cold sensation that is totally opposite of what he was feeling a moment before.  Sucking on cinnamon Altoids will have the same effect.  Other cold items to try would be a Popsicle, ice cubes or frozen juice cubes. 

Are you SWEET or SOUR?

Candy Buttons: Remember these little treats? They're not just for kids. Peel them off, lick the back of each one and stick them in various places on your body. Then have your partner slowly nibble them off one by one. 

Candy Warheads: Here's one for those of you who love the sour candies. Place a one or two of them in your mouth, suck on them for a few moments so they are coated with your saliva. Then rub them on a few of your erogenous zones and let your partner find the zones with just his sense of taste.  Who knows? Maybe you'll introduce your partner to a zone or two he/she hasn't discovered on you yet! 

Candy Necklace: Use this bit of edible jewelry as a garter under your clothes. During an evening out, give your partner a few sneak peeks at the candy on your body with the promise he/she can eat it off of you as soon as you get home!

BERRIES vs CITRUS

These are the most popular foods to be linked with fun sex games. People for ages have been including strawberries into their games of seduction, but there are so many other fruits to choose from. Not only do they taste great themselves, but they have the added bonus of making your cum taste fantastic as well. 

I know some of you are rolling your eyes at that, but it's very true. It's a known scientific fact that the foods you eat can make your body fluids taste differently. If you eat a lot of dairy and red meat, your cum will be very salty. Too much onion or garlic in your foods can make you taste a bit off and don't get me started on asparagus! If you are hoping for a night of "wine me, dine me, sixty-nine me" you had better skip the asparagus, garlic, onions, beer, Brussels sprouts, cabbage, and kale...just to name a few. Those foods will give your cum a bitter taste and pretty much kill the mood.

Instead partake in a variety of melons, mango, papaya, berries, bananas, pineapple, parsley, wheat grass and celery. All of these will help give your secretions a flavor and scent that will leave your partner begging for more.

Drinking juices such as orange, grape, papaya, mango and pineapple can all give you the same result, but wouldn't it be more fun to have a platter of these delectable delights and take turns feeding them to each other? Better yet, why not take turns eating them OFF OF each other? 

Get the picture?

So go on, try a few of these suggestions. See which ones appeal the most to you and your partner and have fun.  Before I go, I want to leave you with another example of another famous TV couple getting their freak on with food. If you compare them to Kim and Mickey, then this next couple will be demonstrating what NOT to do with food in the bedroom.  

Until next week, 
~The Vixen