#SinfullySassySunday: How to Boost Your Health with a Party for One #TheVixen #masturbation

How to Boost Your Health with 

a Party for One

Yes, you read that right. Today the Vixen is going to talk about the fine art of masturbation. Not only can self-love give you great pleasure, but it can actually boost your health. Having at least an orgasm a day has been shown to relieve stress, help you get a better night's sleep, and even relieve some of that dreaded PMS pain. Those are just the small benefits. Hang onto your knickers...the more orgasms you have, the longer your lifespan.

I kid you not. 

The hormone surges involved in the body during and after orgasms help to lower your risk of breast cancer, protect against heart attacks, and keeps the most potent sex organ you have...your brain...healthy.  Click HERE to read more about that.

Not only is it great for your mental and physical health and well-being, masturbation is the best way for you to discover your inner vixen. Who better to discover what shakes you to your very core than you? If you're comfortable exploring your own body, you will be even more comfortable sharing those experiences with a partner...or two later. Of course that could lead to finding even more hot spots on your body, but that's for another post! ;)

Don't go thinking that just a little bit of touchy feely will get you off in a flash. Masturbation is an ART. You have to set the scene, clear your mind and let the fantasies start flowing through instead. If you are a visual person, put in your favorite porn DVD, with sound if you are also an audio person...like me! ;)  

Dim the lights, surround yourself with candles, or set yourself up in a bubble bath with your brand new waterproof sex toy. Whatever it is, whatever the scene, set it up and start touching yourself. 

Still hung up on those Old Wives's Tales about going blind or body parts falling off?  Afraid the nuns are going to smack you with the ruler? Think you are going to become addicted to it once you start? Well, get over it!  Pleasuring yourself alone or in front of your partner can be the most sexually empowering act you can do. 

At the end of the post I've listed a few articles I found that can give you a bit more "research" and of course, make sure you check out your local or Internet adult toy stores for additions to your toy box for your solo fun. Before I go, I'd like to share with you one of my favorite songs and one I featured in a scene in my first book For the Love of Quinn. It's a fun song and sums up masturbation perfectly. 

Enjoy!

~The Vixen

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Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. 

Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels, Tawny Savage and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out later this year.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

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#SinfullySasySundays: It Really Does Exist! #TheVixen Talks About the G-Spot

Welcome back to Sinfully Sassy Sundays here at Taboo II. Come on in and find yourself a seat. Lia and Tony will be around in a few moments with your margaritas. Today's special is the cucumber jalapeno version. It's cool and spicy all at the same time...just like me! 

For those of you who are visiting for the first time, I'm The Vixen. I'm your guide to all things sinful, sassy, wicked, wanton and oh so taboo. If it's naughty, you can be sure we'll talk about it here. 

Today is all about the mysterious part of the female body that many feel simply doesn't exist. Since they can't find it or replicate the sensations it can produce in every single woman on the planet, these people choose to believe the G spot is nothing but a myth.

Well, I call BULLSHIT!

That's right. In spite of what some so called researchers have concluded, the "elusive" G-spot really does exist. Apparently, a group of Israeli and American researchers reviewed over 96 published studies and they concluded that since science cannot pinpoint the EXACT location of said erogenous zone, it simply does not exist.

I wonder how many of those researchers were men? ;) 

It's funny how women all over the world have experienced the stimulation of this hot spot and can say without a doubt it really does exist...just like those come fuck me eyes you read about in Playboy! 

Take a look at this video put together by the Good Vibrations sex expert. Don't let her grandmotherly appearance fool you. This woman is a firecracker!

So if a group of scientists and researchers can't find the G-spot, how the hell are you and your partner going to be successful? First of all, RELAX. If you are so hell bent on finding this specific area, you are going to miss out on a lot of fun. Secondly, don't be frustrated if you haven't found it yet. Your specific zone may be bigger or smaller than someone else's. Get to know your body and all the little triggers that will get you off. 

For some women, the only way they can reach the spot themselves is to use toys. The curved ones work the best. They can be manipulated during solo play to get at the right angle to reach the G-spot with enough pressure and vibration. 

When with a partner, using fingers during oral sex is a MUST! I haven't found a toy out there (yet!) that can mimic that come hither or running man motion that can be done with fingers. Think of it as strumming a guitar. Sure you can get some "noise" just tapping the strings, but when you strum them at various speeds, you get beautiful music!

Are there any specific positions to be in in order to stimulate the "gush zone?" You better believe it honey! The best ones allow you to be able to control the depth, thrust style and position so you can find what works best for you. I found a blog article discussing three favorite positions. Ride 'em Cowboy, Doggy Style, and Your Highness are all explained HERE. Go ahead and take a look. We'll wait for you. ;)

There are other props that can help you get into the best positions to hit the G-spot during sex. You can use extra bed pillows to prop your pelvis into the right angle for deeper penetration. There are even wedges of various shapes and sizes that can be a fun addition to your toy chest. 

The most important lesson here is that you too can find your G-spot. It may not be in the exact spot that some claim it's in, but that doesn't matter. The fun is in the exploration to find it. The explosions that occur once you find it? Those are just frosting on the cake with a cherry on top! 

~The Vixen

 Note: All toys shown in this article can be found at the adult  toy store, Good Vibrations HERE.

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Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her best selling poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. 

Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out early 2014.  Lia's first LGBT erotic paranormal short story is now available through Amazon, ARe, Smashwords, and most major ebook outlets.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

Check out:

Tammy's Website

Tammy's Blog

Tammy's Books on Bookstrand, Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Smashwords,  and iTunes

Sassy VixenPublishing

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